Prom Spot - Q&A: Prom Dates: Telling Him We're Just Friends?

Q: I asked a friend to the prom. Now he thinks we're a couple. I don't want to hurt him, but I don't want to be more than friends. Help!

A: You may not like this advice, but you have no choice: You have to tell him -- now. The longer you wait to let him know that you don't feel romantic toward him, the more foolish he'll feel for having misinterpreted your invitation.

Sit him down for a one-on-one conversation. Start by stressing how important the friendship is to you and how much you cherish your relationship as it is -- and explain that you're not ready for more. He might not be happy about it, but at least he'll appreciate knowing where you stand.